When a player comes to you for advise, as a coach, you must seperate any personal feelings and ALWAYS discuss what's BEST for the PLAYER...that's part of your job as a coach....whether you be the Head Coach or an Assistant. If what's best for the player is that he move on, you support the player....that's not the same thing as encouraging them to leave or actively trying to persuade them to leave. Pushing them to LEAVE and pushing them to STAY are equally wrong...your job as a players COACH is to encourage them to make the best decision for them.