Back in '89, when current TH attorney ROWDY WILLIAMS was dating my niece @ THS, I literally busted my ass typing letters & making copies for schools that I thought matched his hoop skills & IQ. Peterson's Colleges series helped tremendously in this process. These letters included an athletic resume & new clippings of THS that season, which at one time was ranked #1 in the state (This was 6-7 yrs. before the IHSAA chopped the single class concept into pieces). All Rowdy had to do was lick a stamp. Anyway, Rowdy was interested in Intl Law at the time, so Oglethorpe just N. of Atlanta came chirping and seemingly fit his career aspirations, so Rowdy went south. Being away from his "main squeeze" that he'd dated for 3 yrs., he got homesick after a semester and transferred to Franklin, where at one time, he was acclaimed by Steve Alford as the best point G in the conference. I think Alfie was coaching @ Manchester then.
Ya, Rowdy showed me these "letters" from Lute Olsen (IA) and other big schools, but they were simply congratulatory/ego boosters. With a high GPA & SAT scores, Div III was a PERFECT fit for him.
Moral of the story is that sooner you become self-actualized, the quicker you'll find your niche.